Indian Marriage: Paying for a bride- is it still rife?
The pressures of an arranged marriage are nothing to be taken lightly. I think for the most it is intrinsically placed at the heart of a traditional South Asian girls (and boys) upbringing in fact… View Full Post View Post

Marriage: 20 Year later it’s not all that bad!
  After a long 20 years it’s not all bad. I discussed this with my husband and he agreed with ‘it’s been ok’ although I did feel his eyes roll at the thought of him… View Full Post View Post

Cheated by death… again
Arjun did not die ( this time). He fought through and survived, but not for long. I think we had lulled ourselves  into a false sense of security again, he had recovered, he always recovers… View Full Post View Post

Arranged Marriage: Emotional Blackmail?
When I married my husband I will make no excuses for the fear and trepidation I felt. Marrying a man I did not know is nothing to scoff at. I had always known I would have… View Full Post View Post

Not another girl!
It’s not all about religion or culture but also about personal opinion. I remember the days we had our children, much like most mothers. It was filled with mixed emotions. It seemed that motherhood and… View Full Post View Post