Marriage: 20 Year later it’s not all that bad!
  After a long 20 years it’s not all bad. I discussed this with my husband and he agreed with ‘it’s been ok’ although I did feel his eyes roll at the thought of him… View Full Post View Post

Basic Curry Base- Tomato base
Tomato Base – Thorkha This makes a simple base for any curry for you to put any meat or vegetables. It is not really suitable for fish because it can be quite overpowering. My mum… View Full Post View Post

Waiting for death
It was only a this time last year that I sat with Arjun in hospital after he had been rushed in from school; vomiting blood, the medical term being ‘coffee granules’. Why? Because when there is a… View Full Post View Post

Arranged Marriage: Emotional Blackmail?
When I married my husband I will make no excuses for the fear and trepidation I felt. Marrying a man I did not know is nothing to scoff at. I had always known I would have… View Full Post View Post

Not another girl!
It’s not all about religion or culture but also about personal opinion. I remember the days we had our children, much like most mothers. It was filled with mixed emotions. It seemed that motherhood and… View Full Post View Post