Marriage: 20 Year later it’s not all that bad!
  After a long 20 years it’s not all bad. I discussed this with my husband and he agreed with ‘it’s been ok’ although I did feel his eyes roll at the thought of him… View Full Post View Post

Arranged Marriage: Emotional Blackmail?
When I married my husband I will make no excuses for the fear and trepidation I felt. Marrying a man I did not know is nothing to scoff at. I had always known I would have… View Full Post View Post

A letter to my 22 year old single self
Dear Manraj I know you are scared, afraid of how your life will turnout once you are married to man you do not know. You will be moving away from all that is familiar; family, community and… View Full Post View Post

Hot! Hot! Hot!
By it’s hot out! Stating the obvious I know. It’s funny how we British love to talk about the weather from the opening of a conversation with “weathers looking good at the moment” or the… View Full Post View Post

My first every blog post about my journey; motherhood
This is my first ever blog, in fact it is really the first time I have publicly written about my life. It always seems trivial when you are living your own life, always somehow tedious… View Full Post View Post